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Stress Awareness Month: stress doesn’t just affect your mind, it can affect your body too

April is Stress Awareness Month so it feels like a good time to talk about something I see regularly in the treatment room: how stress can affect your body. Stress often shows up physically in your body long before you may realise quite how much you’ve been carrying. Along with a few gentle suggestions on how to ease any symptoms you may be experiencing.

Most people recognise stress when sleep becomes poor, thoughts become busy, or patience wears thin. However, very often your body has been displaying signs of stress long before that point.

You may have noticed tight shoulders, jaw tension, headaches, digestive discomfort, feeling puffy, tired, heavy, or simply feeling not quite right in yourself, but pushed these feelings aside.

One of the most common things stress can do is alter the way we hold ourselves.

Without noticing, you may have begun bracing. Your shoulders may be slightly raised, your stomach tightened, jaw clenched, and breathing shallower than normal.

Your muscles may stay switched on and alert even when there is no immediate threat, nor reason, for them to be working so hard.

Some people may find themsleves curling inwards, almost protecting themselves physically, drawing their body in around their heart/chest and abdomen.

Over time, these physical responses to stress can lead to persistent muscular tension, particularly through:

  • neck
  • shoulders
  • upper back
  • jaw
  • diaphragm
  • lower back

That constant low-level holding can affect comfort, posture, movement, and even how well your body circulates fluid.

Why breathing matters more than people realise

When someone is under prolonged stress, their breathing often shifts into the upper chest rather than deep into the diaphragm. Some people even describe feeling as though they cannot quite get a full breath.

This matters because deep breathing is one of the body’s natural ways of helping circulation and lymphatic movement.

Unlike your circulatory system, your lymphatic system does not have a pump of its own. It relies on breathing, movement, muscle activity, and gentle internal pressure changes to help fluid, lymph, move well around your body.

If breathing becomes restricted and muscles stay tight, lymph flow can become less efficient.

That is often when people notice:

  • facial puffiness
  • bloating
  • fluid retention
  • heavy legs
  • sluggishness
  • fatigue
  • headaches
  • feeling foggy or run down

Muscles, fascia, and that feeling of holding stress

Stress doesn’t only affect muscles. It also influences fascia – the connective tissue that wraps around muscles, organs, and structures throughout the body.

When people live under pressure for long periods, fascia can begin to feel less supple, which can contribute to stiffness, restricted movement, and that familiar feeling of being tight even when you are trying to relax.

Have you ever had a pain that won’t go away despite all your best efforts? That’s likely to be stress showing up in your body.

Clients here in CT14 often say things like:

“I feel like I can’t switch off.”

Or:

“I didn’t realise how tense I was until I got on the couch and you started working on my muscles.”

If you think about it, your nervous system and your body are constantly communicating, so long-term stress will often change how your body responds.

Your lymphatic connection

Your lymphatic system also responds to what is happening in your nervous system.

Periods of prolonged stress can influence immune function, fluid balance, and your body’s natural clearing processes.

This doesn’t mean stress is responsible for every symptom you may be experiencing, but it may be worth considering if you are feeling more swollen, tired, or sluggish than usual during a difficult or demanding period in your life.

What you can try to help support your body

There are many simple things that can help if you are feeling a little off-kilter.

Gentle approaches often include:

  • walking
  • diaphragmatic breathing
  • stretching
  • hydration
  • rest
  • aromatherapy
  • massage therapy
  • reflexology
  • lymphatic drainage treatments
  • allowing time where the body can fully settle

If you have the time and are able, many people find massage, aromatherapy, reflexology, and gentle lymphatic-style treatments particularly helpful for stress relief.

A treatment can help your body relax and feel safe enough to stop bracing, allowing your muscles to soften, breathing to deepen, and the nervous system to settle.

Once that happens, many people say they feel lighter, clearer, and more comfortable in themselves.

Sometimes stress sits quietly in the body for longer than we realise.

Very often, the body notices before we do.

Give both your body and mind a little TLC.

Experience Warmth And Balance With November’s Limited Edition Cocooning Experience

Indulge in a Unique Winter Wellness Journey That Soothes, Restores, and Realigns

Limited Edition Unique Experiences – LEUEs:
If you’re new to my monthly LEUEs, these limited-edition treatments offer a way to escape the hustle and bustle with a thoughtfully designed wellness package. Each LEUE is crafted to help you explore different therapies and discover rejuvenating treatments you may not have tried before.

November’s LEUEs:
As we embrace November’s cooler days, I’ve designed two warm, cozy experiences to bring you inner peace and harmony: the indulgent Nestle into November and a shorter Mini Cocoon for those pressed for time.

Nestle Into November

Nestle into November:
For November’s Limited Edition Unique Experience, treat yourself to a deeply indulgent 75-minute winter wellness treatment. This warming, soul-nourishing experience is crafted to leave you feeling balanced, refreshed, and radiant, perfect as we step into the colder season.

Chakra Stone Placement:
A curated selection of crystals and semi-precious stones will be intuitively placed along your chakras, each supporting specific energy centers—like grounding red stones for your base chakra, soothing blue for your throat, and nurturing green for your heart. Jade promotes grounding, rose quartz enhances self-love, and amethyst brings clarity and calm. This chakra alignment clears blockages, helping to realign your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

LaStone Cocooning with Hand-Picked Stones:
Experience the warmth and relaxation of jade, basalt, rose quartz, and amethyst stones, chosen for their unique healing properties. Basalt provides grounding, while jade’s far-infrared (FIR) warmth eases muscle tension and boosts circulation. Rose quartz brings nurturing energy, and amethyst supports a calm, balanced mind.

Décolleté and Facial Massage:
Enjoy warm oils and gentle massage to relieve facial tension, boost circulation, and give you a soft, radiant glow—a perfect winter pick-me-up for skin health.

Head Massage:
Sink deeper into tranquility with a soothing head massage to ease stress, boost circulation, and invite mental relaxation for complete winter wellness.

Reflexology:
Complete your session with grounding foot reflexology, ideal for promoting holistic relaxation and revitalisation.

Optional Add-Ons:

Self-Heating Eye Mask – Infused with essential oils, this heated mask offers ultimate relaxation.

Reiki – Draw in restorative energy for deep inner calm and well-being.

Rose Eye Revive – A cooling rose quartz treatment to soothe, hydrate, and reduce puffiness.

This LEUE is designed to help you escape the winter chill, reconnect with your energy, and feel truly radiant.

Book now to secure your slot for this seasonal spa experience in Kent.

Mini Cocoon

Mini Cocoon:
For those with limited time, the 40-minute Mini Cocoon offers a quick winter retreat in Kent. Perfect for lunchtime pampering, this experience provides warmth, relaxation, and energy balance, ideal for a unique wellness boost.

Chakra Stone Placement:
Each stone placed along your chakra points supports your energy centers: grounding stones for stability, soothing blue stones for tranquility, and nurturing green stones for the heart. Jade, rose quartz, and amethyst work together to help you release stress and find balance.

Warm Stone Cocooning:
Nestle under a cozy, heated blanket as basalt, jade, rose quartz, and amethyst stones provide grounding warmth and gentle energy.

Scalp, Neck and Décolleté Massage:
A focused massage eases tension in the scalp, neck, and chest, promoting relaxation, improved circulation, and stress release.

Optional Reiki and Reflexology:
Complete your treatment with optional Reiki for inner balance or reflexology for grounding and peace.

The Mini Cocoon is ideal for anyone looking to warm up, realign, and enjoy a calming retreat—all in under an hour. Perfect for a quick, refreshing pick-me-up!

I’ve Got Your Back! How to Prevent Pain

Back Care Awareness Week: 7th-12th October 2024

Are you struggling with back pain from hours spent hunched over a desk? 

Is your posture less than perfect?

This Back Care Awareness Week, I’ve got your back—literally! 

Whether you’re dealing with persistent discomfort or aiming to prevent issues before they start, this week is the perfect time to focus on your back health.

Wherever you are in the UK, Back Care Awareness Week might kick off on different dates, but I’m following the official timeline from backcare.org, and it begins today! 

Your back supports you every day; why not take this opportunity to assess your posture, reflect on you lifestyle, and incorporate daily habits to help resolve ongoing issues and protect your back in the long term. 

So, without further ado, let’s dive into some practical tips that can help you protect your back and improve your overall health and wellbeing.

Look After Your Back and Your Wellbeing

Back pain is one of the most common health issues in the UK, affecting people of all ages, walks of life and professions. 

Whether you’re working from home, hitting the gym, or simply going about your daily routine, taking care of your back is essential for long-term health.

Is Your Home Office Hurting Your Back?

With many of us now working from home, whether full time or hybrid, it’s essential to ensure that your workspace is set up ergonomically. Poor posture or spending hours on the couch or in bed while working can lead to significant discomfort, pain, and, possibly, long-term back issues.

Here are a few key adjustments to help protect your back while working from home:

  • Chair Support: Ensure your chair supports your lower back properly. If you’re working from a couch or bed, you’re likely slouching, which can strain your spine.
  • Desk vs. Couch: Sitting at a properly set-up desk is much better for your back than lounging on the couch or working in bed. Desks allow for proper posture, while soft furniture encourages slouching.
  • Screen Height: Your monitor or laptop screen should be at eye level to prevent hunching your shoulders and neck.
  • Frequent Breaks: Get up and move around every 20 minutes to reduce stiffness and improve circulation.

For more ergonomic tips, check out this Mayo Clinic guide on office ergonomics.

The Tissue is Not Always the Issue

Sometimes, despite all your efforts to care for your back, pain persists. Research shows that back pain isn’t always linked to structural damage. The phrase “the tissue is not the issue” reminds us that pain can be influenced by a variety of factors—stress, mood, fitness, or previous pain experiences.

The nervous system plays a crucial role in how much pain you feel. When pain is persistent, your nervous system can become hypersensitive, making you feel more discomfort even after the initial injury has healed. Understanding this can help you manage your pain better and distinguish between “hurt” and “harm.”

A personalised, holistic approach to self-care or treatment, considering both physical and emotional factors, can often offer better results.

Strengthening Your Core: A Key to Back Health

One of the best ways to prevent back pain is by building a strong core. Your core muscles support your spine, helping to prevent strain and injury. Incorporating exercises like planks, gentle yoga, or Pilates can make a significant difference in keeping your back healthy and resilient.

Everyday Habits for a Healthier Back

Small lifestyle changes can have a big impact on your back health. Here are some simple tips to follow:

  • Stay Active: Regular exercise like walking or swimming keeps your back flexible.
  • Move Regularly: Avoid sitting for more than 20 minutes without taking a quick walk or stretch.
  • Eat a Balanced Diet: A diet rich in nutrients can nourish your muscles, bones, and spine.
  • Take Vitamin D and Calcium: Support bone health by ensuring you get enough calcium and Vitamin D.

Mental Health and Back Pain: A Two-Way Street

Chronic back pain can impact your mental health, causing stress, poor sleep, and even depression. Likewise, stress and anxiety can amplify the perception of pain.

An holistic approach, which addresses both physical and emotional factors, is crucial for effective pain management.

Massage and Complementary Therapies for Back Pain Relief

Sometimes, self-care isn’t enough, and that’s where professional treatments come in. At Lorraine’s Treatment Room, I offer a range of therapies designed to alleviate back pain and improve your overall wellbeing:

Celebrate Back Care Awareness Week!

This Back Care Awareness Week, why not take a small step towards better back health? Whether it’s improving your posture, strengthening your core, or booking a relaxing treatment, every little change can have a big impact.

If you’re ready to take the next step in your back care journey, I’m here to support you with treatments tailored to your needs. Get in touch and let’s work together to ensure your back stays healthy and pain-free!

Walking for your mind and body

Stepping Into Wellbeing: My Perfect Autumn Walk

Being a complementary and holistic therapist, I try to take as natural approach as possible to my health and wellbeing, both physical and mental. 

As we move into autumn, with the days getting shorter, it’s lovely when my ‘weekend’  coincides with a bright and welcoming sunny autumn day enabling me to embrace nature; to step outside and benefit my mind and body with a super sensory stroll.

Walking with The Ramblers in Hythe

Recently, I did a trial walk with The Ramblers.  It was billied as leisurely so didn’t install in me the fear of failing, nor was I worried about bringing up the rear!  It was a lovely, leisurely walk that started along the Royal Military Canal at Hythe, returning via the seafront. Although there were plenty of people around to chat with, after a busy week, I embraced the opportunity to spend some of the time walking alone with my thoughts. How often do we get the chance to truly reflect?  The walk allowed me to reflect on the past week and mentally prepare for the next while absorbing the beautiful surroundings.

A Feast for my Eyes, Ears and Olfactory System

From the bursts of colour from flowers still in bloom, the statues along the river bank, to the squawk of seagulls overhead, the scent of the sea in the breeze, the aromas from the coffee vans, and the distant chatter of people enjoying themselves—it was a true sensory experience. Walking back along the busy promenade, I saw dogs waiting patiently beside their owners, while they sipped coffee and caught up with friends, I saw people enjoying a dip in the sea, wind surfing, cyclists, children playing…….it was a feast for my eyes, ears and olfactory system. 

Enjoying the Moment

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s so easy to get caught up in constant connectivity; there always seems to be something to do that takes priority over just stopping and smelling the roses. That’s why I made the conscious decision to put my phone away. Instead of capturing the moment through the lens of a camera, I let myself soak in the view—fully enjoying the present. It was a much-needed break, and it felt like a moment of self-care.

One thing I reflected on afterwards was, whether I’m in the countryside or strolling along the seaside, walks like these are so very beneficial for my mind, body, and spirit.

So, you may be wondering, What are The Benefits of Walking in Nature?

It’s often easy to ignore or forget how impactful a simple walk can be. 

One of the simplest and most beneficial ways to care for your mental and physical health is by moving and, stepping outside and soaking in the autumn sunshine is accessible and free!

Walking outdoors is one of the easiest and most effective ways to boost your mental well-being – and get fitter at the same time!

Whether you’re strolling along the seafront of coastal towns such as Deal and Sandwich or exploring nearby beautiful country trails, stepping into nature can help lower your stress levels, clear the mind, and even combat feelings of anxiety or sadness.

Help Alleviate the Symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

As the nights draw in, many people start to feel the effects of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). If you’re noticing a dip in your energy levels or mood, spending more time outdoors during daylight hours can significantly help. As the days shorten, exposure to daylight is important for maintaining our vitamin D levels.  Exposure to natural light is a simple yet effective way to improve your mood and mental wellbeing. A coastal walk by the sea or through countryside trails can offer a natural lift.

Should I wear sunscreen when walking?

Ideally, you should apply a moisturiser with SPF every day of the year!

When walking in the autumn, even though the autumn sun becomes less intense and you may not feel the sun’s warmth in the same way, don’t forget to apply SPF to protect your skin—especially if you’re spending extended periods outdoors.

SPF stands for sun protection factor and is similar to suncreams, helping you stay out longer without damaging your skin.  

Remember, autumn can be harsh, with cooler winds and central heating drying out your skin. Regular moisturising, gentle exfoliation, a weekly face mask and moisturisers with SPF protection will help keep your skin in balance.  If you’re unsure about which products to use or how to use them please reach out to seek professional advice for your skin’s specific needs.

Mindfully Taking Care of Yourself Outdoors

Autumn is a busy time for many as we transition into new routines, so it’s crucial to carve out time for self-care.  Taking a walk is a wonderful act of self-care. It gives you the chance to step away from your routine and truly focus on yourself. The beauty of living near Deal and Sandwich is the proximity to both stunning coastal walks and peaceful country trails.

Stretching before and after your walk

Make sure to warm up gently before taking huge strides, and, if you’ve not exercised for a while, ensure you stretch before and after your walk to avoid any stiffness.

Stay hydrated when walking

Additionally, remember to stay hydrated.  Even if the air is crisp and you don;t feel thirsty, we should all be aiming to drink around 1.2l of fluid a day. Whether it’s a flask with a cup of tea, or a bottle of water, your body will thank you later!

Ouch – I’ve got Blisters / Feet Issues!

I have a regular walking companion and, we went through a phase of literally EVERY SINGLE TIME we walked she would have foot issues!  No word of a lie!  It goes without saying, please wear comfortable and appropriate footwear on your walk.  If your feet are aching upon your return, a soak in a bowl of warm water, possible with the addition of some epson salts*, will work wonders.  If you are a regular walker then you may find massages or reflexology helpfully soothe away aches and pains and bring you back into balance. *Please ensure that you are not contra-indicated to anything you add to your footbath.

Look after yourself! If it’s Possible, Take Time to Slow Down and Smell the Roses!

Next time you head out, whether it’s a coastal stroll or a walk through the countryside, take time to stop, look, and listen; embrace the benefits for both your mind and body.

Go on! Get up, get your walking shoes on, get outside, get moving, put your phone away, and let nature do its magic!




Boost Your Mental Wellbeing: The Magic of Massage & Complementary Therapies


In my previous blog I explored the power of human touch and its profound impact on mental well-being, offering gentle suggestions on how small changes can make a big difference in your life and the lives of those around you

It’s encouraging to see that more people are becoming aware of the importance of mental well-being. However, not everyone has regular access to hugs or human touch, leading some to seek holistic approaches to support their overall health.

Massage therapy and complementary treatments such as reflexology, Reiki, and holistic massage have gained recognition for their positive impact on mental health. These hands-on therapies offer a unique way to support your emotional, physical, and psychological well-being by promoting relaxation, reducing stress, and enhancing mood.

I understand that there’s a lot of information to take in, so I hope this brief blog will help you determine whether hands-on therapies could be beneficial on your journey to physical and psychological well-being.

The Role of Touch in Mental Health

As we have explored, touch is a fundamental aspect of human interaction and plays a crucial role in mental health. Integrating touch-based therapies like massage into mental health care provides a more holistic approach to well-being.

For individuals dealing with trauma or high levels of stress, hands-on therapies can help them reconnect with their bodies and release emotional tension in a safe, supportive environment. Research shows that massage therapy can significantly reduce symptoms of mental health conditions, though its adoption in the UK remains limited.

However, embracing hands-on therapies for mental health could have a transformative impact. The Massage Company reports that 1 in 6 people in England will experience mental health challenges in any given week, highlighting the crucial role of complementary therapies in supporting mental well-being. The British Beauty Council suggests that incorporating massage therapy into regular healthcare could reduce mental health issues by over 10% and decrease sick days by 1.76 million annually.

How Hands-On Therapies Support Mental Health

Massage and complementary therapies are more than just a means of relaxation; they have been extensively studied for their mental health benefits. By stimulating the parasympathetic nervous system, massage and complementary therapies encourage the body to enter a state of rest and recovery, which can alleviate symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress.

Regular hands-on treatments can help individuals manage chronic stress, improve mood, and enhance sleep quality—crucial components for maintaining mental health. Additionally, massage and complementary therapies promote the release of natural mood-regulating hormones like cortisol, serotonin, and dopamine, which can lower stress levels and foster a sense of calm and well-being.

Holistic Massage at Lorraine's Treatment Room
All massage Treatments work holistically helping alleviate any aches and pains and balancing, mind and body.

Holistic Massage: A Comprehensive Approach to Mental Wellbeing

Holistic massage is a therapeutic approach that considers the whole person—mind, body, and spirit.

This type of massage is tailored to your individual and specific needs, addressing both physical discomfort and emotional stress.

By promoting deep relaxation and reducing muscle tension, holistic massage can help alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety. Additionally, the calming environment and personalised care provided during your holistic massage session can encourage mindfulness and body awareness, helping you reconnect with yourself and find balance in your life.

Find out more about treatments available here.

Indian Head Massage: A Soothing Remedy for Stress and Anxiety

Indian Head Massage is a deeply relaxing therapy that focuses on the head, neck, and shoulders—areas where stress and tension can often accumulate.

This treatment is particularly effective for alleviating stress, reducing anxiety, and promoting mental clarity. A study on the physical and psychological concluded head massage reduced anxiety.

The gentle, rhythmic movements used in Indian Head Massage stimulate circulation and encourage the release of endorphins, which can enhance mood and provide a sense of well-being.

This therapy is ideal for individuals who experience mental fatigue, headaches, or tension due to stress.

Find out more about treatments available here

Reflexology: Balancing Mind and Body

Reflexology is a complementary therapy that involves applying pressure to specific points on your feet, hands, or ears, which correspond to different organs and systems in your body.

This practice is believed to stimulate the body’s natural healing processes and promote balance.

Reflexology is particularly beneficial for mental health as it can reduce stress, alleviate anxiety, and improve sleep quality. With studies showing that and increase in foot reflexology time was directly correlated to a decrease in anxiety. The release of endorphins during a reflexology session can also elevate mood and provide relief from feelings of depression.

Find out more about reflexology treatments here.

Aromatherapy: Enhancing Mood with Essential Oils

Aromatherapy uses essential oils to promote physical and psychological well-being. These oils are often integrated into massage and complementary therapy treatments to enhance their effects.

Every essential oil has unique properties and after consultation a bespoke blend will be mixed. As well as the benefits from topical application, inhalation of these natural aromas during your treatment deepens relaxation and supports your mental well-being.

Evidence from studies on the effects of psychoaromatherpy conculded that aromatherapy provides a potentially effective treatment for a range of psychiatric disorders. Additionally, taking into account the available information on safety, aromatherapy appears to be without the adverse effects of many conventional psychotropic drugs.

Find out more about aromatherapy treatments here.

Bespoke aromatherapy at Lorraine's Treatment Room
Lorraine is a Reiki Master.  Reiki is available in Worth - near Sandwich, Eastry, Ham, Deal, Sholden and Ash.

Reiki: Energy Healing for Emotional Balance

Reiki is a form of energy healing that focuses on balancing your body’s energy fields to promote physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

This gentle, non-invasive therapy involves your therapist placing their hands on or near your body to channel healing energy.

Reiki can help reduce stress, calm the mind, and enhance emotional resilience. In fact the National Library of Medicine states research suggests that Reiki may be more effective in treating some areas of mental health, than placebos, particularly if symptoms are clinically relevant.

Many individuals find that Reiki helps them process difficult emotions, gain clarity, and achieve a sense of peace, making it a valuable tool for supporting your mental wellbeing.

Find out more about Reiki in this blog.

Final Thoughts

Massage therapy and complementary therapies offer promising benefits for mental health by reducing stress, enhancing mood, improving sleep, and promoting mindfulness.

While these therapies should complement, rather than replace, traditional mental health treatments, they provide a valuable, holistic approach to your mental well-being.

If you’re considering integrating these therapies into your mental health care plan, contact Lorraine or another qualified practitioner to explore the best options for your needs.

By incorporating Indian Head Massage, Holistic Massage, Reflexology, Reiki, and Aromatherapy into your self-care routine, you can create a supportive environment for mental health that nurtures both your body and mind.